Audrey B. Post, 86, of Camden, age 86, died peacefully in her sleep on Dec. 9, 2016, after a long struggle with illness.

She was born May 9, 1930 and grew up in Chestnut Hill, Pennsylvania, in a happy, lively household with her parents, John Russell Breitinger and Helen Haig Breitinger, and her sister, Janie. After graduating from Springside School, she attended Sweet Briar College in Virginia, where she majored in French. During her junior year, she lived in Paris, France, studying at the Sorbonne with courses at L’Ecole de Louvre. Her experiences in Europe — whether bicycling around Paris or exploring Italy, Switzerland, England, Ireland, and Finland during school vacations — were some of the highlights of her life.

After receiving her degree from Sweet Briar, Class of 1951, she worked for a publishing company in Pennsylvania for a year, and then married Harry I. Lauer, whom she had known since her school days. After raising her three children in Chestnut Hill for 10 years, she had a powerful religious awakening at the age of 33 that led to her decision with her husband to go into the ministry. The family moved to Cambridge, Massachusetts, where Harry earned a graduate degree from the Episcopal Theological School. Audrey also audited courses at ETS and Harvard Divinity School, and she found these three years of intellectual and spiritual study to be some of her happiest, a time when she felt “truly alive.”

Upon graduating from the seminary in 1964, the family moved to Gwynedd, Pennsylvania, where her husband was a curate at The Church of the Messiah, and then to Princeton, New Jersey, where he served as the vicar of All Saints Chapel. The family also spent summers on their beloved Great Cranberry Island, where Harry served as minister. In 1968, they finally settled in Camden, Maine, where Harry became the rector of St. Thomas. Audrey embraced the role of serving her new community as a minister’s wife, as she also continued to bring up her children.

Following her divorce in 1972, Audrey remained in Camden with her children, working for Laite Funeral Home and later as a secretary for the superintendent of schools. She married Oliver Post, living first in Lincolnville Beach before finding their “sacred spot” on Crockett's Beach, Owls Head, for the next several decades. She and Ollie devoted their life together to their community and their church: she briefly served on the board of the Methodist Conference Home, actively involved herself with the Shields Mission Outreach, and delivered Meals on Wheels for 40 years. Playtime was also important for Audrey and Ollie. As a competitive tennis player and a 40-year member of the Megunticook Golf Club, she emphasized the value of fair play and teamwork as an athlete. She also had many meditative joys: she was a gardener, a fan of classical jazz and folk music, and a constant reader. Above all, the times she enjoyed most were spent with her children and grandchildren, all of whom greatly enriched her life.

Thoughtful and generous, spiritual and proud, Audrey loved her family and friends above all else, and they will remember her as one of the strongest, most remarkable people they have known – and for her beautiful smile. She felt her mission in life was to worship, to serve, to pray and seek the Lord’s guidance, and to listen to the needs in every situation and act. When she woke up in the morning, she would say to herself, “This is the day the Lord has made. Rejoice and be glad in it.”

Audrey was predeceased by her beloved sister, Jane B. Darrow; her husband of 31 years, Oliver Post; her son, Harry I. Lauer III; and her stepson, Richard Post.

She is survived by her two daughters, Audrey Lauer Schick and her husband Dr. Arthur Schick; Jane B “Pixie” Lauer; her two grandchildren, Victoria “Tori” Curtis Jose, and her husband, Eben Jose; Myles Lauer Curtis, and his life partner, Amy Daniel; her stepdaughter, Penny Crockett and husband Charlie; her daughter-in-law, Beth Lauer, and her family; niece, Deborah Darrow Scheffey; and nephew, David Darrow.

The family would like to thank the caregivers at Bartlett Woods and The Sussman House for the outstanding care and love Audrey and the entire family received.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Meals on Wheels, MCH Inc., 46 Summer Street, Rockland, ME 04841 www.mchinc.org, or to Shields Mission Fund, c/o First Congregational Church, 55 Elm Street, Camden, ME 04843.

There will be a service to remember Audrey’s life followed by a reception at 1 p.m., Friday, Dec. 23 at First Congregational Church UCC, 55 Elm Street, Camden with the Rev. Dr. Deb Jenks officiating.

Condolences may be shared with the family at www.longfuneralhomecamden.com. Arrangements are with the Long Funeral Home & Cremation Service, 9 Mountain Street, Camden.